Speaking with many other women and men Julia quickly discovered that although often only discussed behind closed doors, many people were attracted to and intrigued by age-gap relationships.
The decision was simple: Julia turned her focus to creating her very own toyboy and cougar dating site to do just that.
Try to establish what you’re both looking for from the relationship in the early days, so you can be sure you’re on the same page.
If having a family is important to you, then this is something to consider when dating an older woman.
“I find it comforting to know that her life goes on when I’m not around,” he said. Plus, I’m talking about outside of the bedroom as well. etc.) But many are not.** She’s choosier, and, unlike the 26-year-olds who think they’ll drop dead if they’re not engaged by 27, married at 28, and prego before 30, she’s looking at life a little differently now.
(This is code for, “I dread clingy girls who abandon their own ships the moment we have sex, and set up camp on my shore.”) Also, the fact that an older woman has her own money means she likely worked hard to get it. You may buy into the idea that all older women are “desperate.” Granted, some are. This doesn’t mean she doesn’t want marriage/kids, because she might—but if so, she’ll be pretty clear about it up front.
She may already have children, which will bring its own challenges and rewards.
A responsibility like children will restrict spontaneity and you won’t always be the priority in her life.
Having always been attracted to younger men, Toyboy Warehouse founder Julia Macmillian realised there were no dating agencies specifically tailored to finding the younger men she desired.You may be in the stage of life when you’re still establishing your career, living in shared accommodation, or saving up to go travelling.She, on the other hand, may already be settled, financially secure, maybe even a mother. But, if you are living a different lifestyle to the person you’re dating, it will likely lead to conflict.But what can a younger man expect if they do find love with an older woman?Here are the 8 things you need to know When dating older women, it’s important to bear in mind that you may be at very different stages in your lives. But not every cougar (a hot woman several years older than you) is Mrs.